Tuesday, October 23, 2012

The Big White Dress

While the rest of the world is talking about Halloween, I still have butterflies in my stomach sharing about my wedding story on my Love month this October. And what better way to start the week with a post about... well, just the most important detail in every wedding, "the Dress."

The Dress, which alter any engaged girl's senses and make everything sink in in heightened emotions at the very first gown fitting;
The Dress, which all eyes will be on as Brides walk down the isle on the biggest day of their lives;
The Dress, which will encapsulate any Brides' memory about her wedding day.  

I can go and on about the importance of the "the Dress" but do you get the point how much pressure it is to find/ create the perfect wedding dress? *phew* I feel a little tense now... 

Before I even got engaged though, I already had an idea how I wanted my wedding dress to look like. I'm usually very insecure about my fiercely real figure but on my wedding, with Beyonce, Kim Kardashian and Jennifer Lopez as inspirations, I embraced my full figure and my hips that don't lie with a mermaid cut wedding gown. Ergo, the Peg.

The Peg

I had few magazine cut outs and sketches with me when I visited my designer but when I was looking through magazines while waiting for my turn, I saw this gown and fell in love. I knew then this was IT. 

Tito Bill, my designer, is my mom's friend who I've known every since I was in high school when we borrowed a gown for my United Nations pageant, which I won by the way. *yabang lang

He owns the famous boutique in BF Homes, The Dream Maker, and because I've always liked his designs, there was no doubt in my mind to have him design my wedding gown. Lucky for me, when you book with him a year in advance, he'll also give 50% discount for the whole entourage package! *kaching kaching*

The Moment of Truth. 
When it's time to take your measurements.

It will take about 6 months to finish my Wedding gown so, I followed a systematic timeline. One that will give Tito Bill the flexibility of time to polish my gown and for me to lose some pounds. Tip for Brides-to-be, when you have your measurements about to be taken, wear a fitted dress and bring heels with the right height that you're most comfortable with. 

To also prepare for your fitting and look good on the big day, do 10x crunches every morning when you wake up and lift some dumbbells to tone your arms and lose the batwings! 

My First Gown Fitting
Yes! pumayat ako!
I look so puffy. I'm like a walking pom pom.
Daddy's Girl.

Tip, remember that every designer has their own interpretation of their designs. Key thing is to trust your designer because they have no other priority than to make you look and feel pretty on your wedding day. So, since the mermaid cut will be more flattering to taller girls, we opted to move the skirting up to my lower hips. 

My Second Fitting

Trivia. Did you know that my wedding gown weighs about 8-10 lbs. heavy? No kidding! This dress consumed 60 yards of Silk Organza. 

Time to face the Spotlight.
French Lace embellished with Swarovski crystals
to support the weight of the gown
My Wedding Gown &
my After-party dress, a gift from Tito Bill.
Glowing Bride

When the big day comes, drop all your woes and enjoy the day, whatever happens, you'll be looking radiant the whole day.


Bill Calubaquib
#21 President's Avenue
Tahanan Village, Paranaque City
T: (02) 401-7192; 809-9886
M: (0917) 8407541
E: tdmcouture@yahoo.com


xoxo, 

The Clueless Mrs.

Sunday, October 21, 2012

Sharing the LOVE

I have few more posts coming along for my Love to Wedding Blog Series on my Love month this October. Before I conclude this series though,  I want to share the LOVE, specially to those newly engaged couples out there, by giving away a special gift.

Simply follow two steps...
#2 LIKE and SHARE this photo (don't forget to set it as public) 
That's it! Easy right? 

Then... Once I reach a humble 100 fans, I'll raffle off this lovely Wedding Organizer worth SGD49.95 (est. PhP1,500++), I bought from Kikki K. Singapore. Yes, this is just like mine! So, you can now make your own "book" of Wedding Planning memories you'll cherish FOREVER!

And because I LOVE thee sO mucho, I'll also be throwing in free shipping for addresses within Metro Manila. 


This giveaway treat is open to everyone, newly engaged couples, about to be's, guys planning to pop the question soon *hint hint* and girls getting the crazy eyes! *haha*

Help me share the LOVE guys! LIKE LIKE LIKE!


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xoxo,

The Clueless Mrs.


Friday, October 19, 2012

Little Black Dress

My new motto in life?

"When in doubt, always go for the Little Black Dress."

Got myself invited (thanks to my sister) to a product launch event of BPI for their new lifestyle mall credit card in partnership with VISA and Ayala Malls, AMORE. It was pretty last minute actually... Good thing, I have an unused LBD, which my mom gave me ages ago, stashed somewhere in my closet just waiting for the right occasion. When I tried it on, I liked the cut and the fit is just right so, I knew that this was the dress I'm going to wear for the cocktail event. 

I wanted to add a pop of color to my black ensemble
so, I frosted myself with a little bit of color blocking.
I just love the blurry effect in this picture.
LBD: Naf Naf (SALE at P199, originally P2,698)
Shoes: Syrup from People Are People (P1,299)
Bag: Liz Claiborne (my mom's, which she got as a gift)
Necklace: For Reselling soon. (est. SRP P250-300)

I did tell you I was with my sister, right? Check out how insanely fashionable she is as well. And here are her best shots...

Black Tube Top: The Landmark (P90)
Jasmine Silk Pants: SM Sucat Clearance on 3 (SALE P80)
Shoes: Syrup from People are People (SALE 50% off @ P699)
Bag: Parfois (SALE @ P890, originally P2,000+)

Aren't we the exact opposites? I'm fiercely real (as Tyra puts it) and she's slim & petite, I have long hair and hers is short, I'm Classic and she's Trendy BUT we do have two things in common: we both LOVE Fashion and we do it ALWAYS on a budget.


xoxo,

The Clueless Mrs.

Think Pink

My morning was greeted with an inspiring email from AVA - The Home of Beautiful Things   about their Think Pink Sale to support Breast Cancer Awareness by the ICanServe Foundation Inc.

The ICanServe Foundation Inc. provides hope and help to women with breast cancer. It promotes early breast cancer detection through high impact information campaigns and community based screening programs. Its network of cancer survivors light the path for women with cancer towards total healing. 

This is something that's close to my heart because one of my closest titas was struck by this illness and didn't survive. I too suffer multiple benign tumors in both my breasts and have already undergone mammotome biopsy in 2010. Though they seemed to be benign, my tumors continue to grow and even multiply in numbers that I have to see my doctors once in a while with a high probability of undergoing another biopsy before the year ends. I live in fear everyday that my tumors might mutate to something ugly and cripple my life that I hold so dear. 

I love the fact that AVA gives us a chance now to show our support to the survivors and those women battling breast cancer through the Think Pink Sale. Through a simple purchase for as low as P220, we will be able to help the ICanServe Foundation Inc. to continue its advocacy of early detection of the big C.

Awareness is the key and it's time to do our part to battle this disease.


THINK PINK SALE

Here are some of the items for SALE. Products from ICanServe Breast Cancer Foundation.
Limited Edition Swatch Watch P5,000 
Limited Edition ICanServe Fan P1,000
Monchet y Cia is a  tribute to the heritage of handmade abanico fans, using sustainable wood, local hand loomed fabrics, and embellished with artisinal rings and silk tassels. The fan collection is limited  in number and kept to the seasonality of color and pattern. There will only be 80 ICanServe Limited Edition fans to be produced so, be sure to be among the first to avail of this unique, beautifully designed product.

ICanServe Tote Bag P490
ICanServe Charm Bracelet P280
ICanServe Hoodie P2,185 designed by Team Manila

BUY NOW

For more beautiful things, go to AVA.ph 
You can also LIKE AVA's Facebook Fanpage or
Follow @AVAfashion on Twitter

Show your support! 


xoxo,

The Clueless Mrs.

Get Started Planning your Wedding your own "Book"

Successful weddings don't come easy. It all starts with a plan and good planning always come with "THE BOOK" and a reliable wedding checklist.
AKA
your Wedding Organizer...
your Memory Scrapbook...
your Life... (for this very important event anyway)
I almost died when I saw this Wedding Organizer from Kikki K. in a wedding blog. It's just so OC and pretty that I just had to have one so, when my then-colleague was going to Singapore, I begged for him to buy me one even if I know it'll overburden his baggage, and since I used my puss-in-boots eyes, he couldn't say no. When I finally got it, I realized that it's freakin' S$49.90 (est. PhP1,500++) for a good looking Organizer with very few sleeves so, I made sure to use it to its maximum bulkiness. Thank God for compatible sleeves! (Seagull JC306-A available in National Bookstore).

Here I keep cut outs from magazines, my mood boards, creative pegs, all our receipts, invite proofs, misalette to program script drafts, calling cards, etc. etc. etc. 

Call me sentimental but I'm sure that when we look back, these are the things that we'll be reminiscing about and showing our kids in the future. Every detail counts...

This is very helpful for me till now coz it also serves as my credentials (proof of my OC-ness in wedding planning) when I present to prospect couples for my thriving new Wedding Coordination biz Fairytale Weddings & Events.

It also helps if you have a reliable wedding checklist to keep you on track of the things you need to accomplish on time. I, personally, used the Wedding Checklist supplement FREE from Wedding Essentials magazine. If you're techy, there are free wedding checklist apps available too for iPhone & Android phones and the one from bridalbook.ph when you register to their site is also pretty good. 


If you ask me about Wedding Planning tips, first thing I'm going to tell you really is to book suppliers early and book them at Bridal Fairs to get the best deals. 

Here's a list of suppliers we met and booked at Bridal Fairs.
More about my A-team on later post, here are upcoming bridal fairs for you to check out.

We're Engaged Bridal Fair

xoxo, 

The Clueless Mrs.